The word ‘Bottom’ refers to the partner who is submissive and enjoys being penetrated and controlled in the sexual course. The Top is the one who penetrates their Bottom partner. The word ‘Top’ refers to the partner who is the dominant one during the sexual activity. Also, these apply to both straight as well as gay couples.īefore we begin, it is important to know some commonly used terminology. These positions are age-old positions that have been in practice for ages. Missionary, doggy style, cowboy are some of the most commonly known sexual positions.